Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Handling Rejection During Your Job Search


By : Andrew Morris

A lot of people fear rejection during their job quest, and if you happen to be one of such people then you should remain comforted in the knowledge that you are not alone. Only a sadist would like dealing with unending rejection. Every job hunter out there fears rejection, and the only thing different is the way they handle it. Successful job hunters use rejection as a tool to push further and drive them towards success, while less successful ones allow rejection to drown them in a pool of depression. Handling rejection more positively is the way to success, and understanding how to do so is tied to taking rejection in stride when it comes.

Think of it, how many actors win an audition the first time the try out? How many people get a job the first time they ever apply? Rejection in job hunting is a constant that you have to deal with, and this constant cannot be avoided even by you! Handle your job search efforts well, and free yourself from stress by understanding the fact that many situations will occur which may lead to you not getting a job.

Getting rejected when you apply for a job is not an easy thing but it cannot be avoided. The way to avoid taking rejection personally is by looking at it from an entirely different point of view. The fact that you are getting rejected means that your chances of getting a job are actually improving.

The reason for this is that by job hunting and getting rejected, you tend to understand more about yourself and the job marketplace and what this does is that it gives you more information to work with at subsequent interviews.

A basic fact you should get into your head when job searching is that you will likely encounter more rejection than acceptance during the quest for a job. Your aim is to find that one opportunity that will turn out to be a success.

You should also keep it in mind that being rejected for a job does not necessarily mean career failure or a lack of abilities as a person. It may be due to a failure in your method of approach or other reasons which were beyond your immediate control.

At the end of each interview, you should reflect upon what you did well during the interview and work on those things. And, you should reflect on what you did wrong and how that could be improved on as well. Doing this will prepare you better for the next interview and give you a better chance at succeeding in your job quest.

Finally you should remember that job hunting is a numbers game: some people make it while other people don't, and the more you get interviews and improve yourself the better your chances of winning become. When you are focused on the next interview at hand, then you throw the feelings of rejection and depression out the window much faster and prime yourself for success.


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